The problem with crazy women

We have all dated that man. He is great. He fills the void he is exactly what you need at this point in your life. In the beginning everything seems Good. You do all the normal stuff some of which involves talking about each other's exs. Completely normal. Until you find out this ex hasn't left you alone in the last 6 months and she is ruining his life and he wants to drag me into the middle of the crazy? But I don't know it's crazy in the beginning heck I am so dense I don't even realize it's crazy until I am laying in my bed alone wishing I hadn't bailed on the event that was a plus one event but I couldn't go because my plus one can't go out. And instead of at least talking to him about it I am eating chocolate trying to figure out if she has ruined you today or if I have a shot at a conversation that isn't going to make me feel like worse about myself than I already do.